Church hurt is a term many are familiar with, but its presence doesn't have to define our spiritual journey. In our recent podcast episode, we were privileged to have a candid conversation with Dr. Velma Bagby, an acclaimed author and marriage expert, Pastor Tonya Harden and Melanie Johnson all shared personal stories of navigating church hurt and highlighted the importance of maintaining a focus on God rather than people in the journey towards healing and forgiveness. As former pastor's wives, their experiences with church hurt are deeply personal. They shared their struggles and how recognizing God's control over all circumstances provided a path for growth and healing. Pastor Harden discussed the silent suffering often experienced by first ladies in the church and the critical role they play within the church community. Dr. Bagby, on the other hand, delved into how her experiences have shaped her books, providing practical help for those navigating their own marriages.Church hurt can knock at our doors unexpectedly. How we respond to it is critical. During the podcast, we discussed the importance of forgiveness and understanding in dealing with human mistakes within the church. The power of prayer, trust in God, and understanding who the true enemy is can be transformative in overcoming church hurt. Whether you've experienced church hurt firsthand or are looking to support others in their healing journey, these insights can be valuable.Understanding that God is in control of all circumstances is a powerful realization. It can help us learn from moments of church hurt and respond with forgiveness and understanding rather than retaliation. The silent suffering of first ladies in the church was explored, acknowledging that it can be a 'silent killer.' Recognizing that our enemy has no face is an important aspect of dealing with church hurt. Being a pastor's wife comes with unique challenges. Dr. Bagby, Melanie Johnson and Pastor Harden reflected on their own experiences with church hurt and discussed ways to protect church members from similar experiences. Forgiveness and understanding are crucial as everyone in the church is human and can make mistakes. Recognizing that God is in control of all circumstances can help us learn from moments of church hurt. Church hurt and healing is a significant topic. From personal perspectives as former pastor's wives and victims of domestic abuse, understanding who the true Master is can guide the right decisions for life and stop church hurt from perpetuating. Reflection on the power of forgiveness, understanding everyone's human nature, and recognizing that God is in control of all circumstances is essential.In conclusion, this episode offered an insightful discussion on church hurt, its implications, and pathways to healing. It serves as a reminder that forgiveness and understanding are pivotal in dealing with human mistakes within the church. Above all, maintaining a focus on God, rather than people, is the key to a healing journey.
Listen to the episode here:
https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-listen-linda-119463043/episode/listen-linda-church-hurts-from-the-eyes-of-a-preachers-wife--119463044?cmp=ios_share&sc=ios_social_share&pr=false
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I love this! I can’t wait to sit down and listen to this. I want to say thank you to the woman that bravely shared her story to the world. And I also want to thank you Jacquiline for having this kind lady on your platform to tell her story. We need to bring awareness to things like this for sure.
Church hurt is definitely real. Everyone will have their own story to share when it comes to this. The keys to moving on from church hurt are forgiveness, understanding, and to remember we are all human. God can help guide us through this process.
This was a fabulous episode. More discussion is needed on church hurt to help others recover & heal, as well as to see God’s purpose & plan as you overcome it. You are such a gracious host,. Thank you for allowing me to join you. Blessings, Dr. Velma
Everyone doesn’t understand why people
Leave the church! I’m so glad these women took the time to give their experiences. I’m going to go listen to it and see what their conclusion was. Great Job!
Very well written and spoke true facts! Now I have to get Dr Velma’s book and listen to the episode!